But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him. God is a Spirit, and they that worship Him must worship Him in spirit and in truth.
“You may not have a perfect day, and you may not have perfect ways, but you can offer God a perfect praise.”
God seeks after true worshipers, and true worship is achieved through all your pain and suffering. Use such emotions to cry out to God, and he will hear you and draw near. Share your whole heart with God, and you will always be able to find joy.